This time of year there are firework displays in most villages, towns, and cities. It is especially hard for some Veterans and Service Personnel due to the whistles, bangs, bright lights, smoke, and noise that can sound like gunshots and explosions. This applies to anyone, let alone someone who has experienced first-hand the trauma that can result from being in a warzone where there may have been very similar lights and noise.
A ‘flashback’ is an extremely unpleasant experience – this is a memory of an event which is recalled involuntarily. It is so intense that the brain is unable to recognise it as a memory, not something which is happening in the here and now. The sights and sounds of fireworks can be a trigger for flashbacks so it is understandable why this time of year can provoke feelings of apprehension and anxiety for so many of the ‘blokes’ and their families.
What can be done to make things as easy as possible? As with most things, preparation is key. Every individual will have a unique experience of events so here are a few tips to try to help if you, or someone close to you, is anxious about fireworks. The majority of these techniques are known as “Grounding”. They are simple strategies to help keep someone focused on the present moment:
The final point which is so important to remember is to practice the techniques before you need them.
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